有緣遇到你,每天講口語,這裡是小賢英語,歡迎Follow。
應學員的要求,講講如何與陌生人開口聊天,也就是icebreaking talk。
和陌生人打招呼,最簡單的方法就是Hello和 Hi,Hey是比較熟悉後才用的。
談天氣是最常用的方式,比如電梯裡狹小的空間偶遇一個你想打招呼的陌生人,你可以說「wow, it is freezing, isn’t it?」 今天太冷了!對方一般會說「yeah, tell me about it」 可不是嗎。
如果想進一步聊下去,可以讚揚對方的穿着,比如「Nice shoes by the way, where did you buy them?」 你鞋子真好看,哪裡買的; You have such a wonderful hairdresser, I wish I could have your haircut, that is amazing!你的髮型師真棒!我多想有你那麼好的髮型;Your earrings look perfect on you ! 你的耳環太配你了。
讚揚陌生人不是中國人的習慣,但在西方很普遍,禮多人不怪,讚揚的是對方的穿着品味,不會被認為是騷擾和猥瑣,尤其是輕描淡寫地讚揚對方,對方都會挺不好意思地回應thanks, 那你就有機會自報家門了,I am James, just move in the neighborhood, nice meeting you! 我是剛搬到這個小區的James,很高興認識你; I am Linda working on the 8th floor, nice meeting you, 我是在八樓工作的Linda,幸會;I am new here, any interesting places around here? 我是新來的,這附近有什麼好玩的地方嗎?I am looking for a coffee shop, any recommendation? 我想找個咖啡廳,你有啥推薦嗎?
再有一個方法就是主動幫助對方,比如幫對方開門,和陌生人說after you ,你先走;或者進電梯後問對方,which floor? 然後幫對方按電梯樓層,對方說了thank you 之後,你就可以重複上文內容了,你學會了嗎?
總結一下,
wow, it is freezing, isn’t it? Yeah, tell me about it;Nice shoes by the way, where did you buy them?You have such a wonderful hairdresser, I wish I could have your haircut, that is amazing!Your earrings look perfect on you !I am James, just move in the neighborhood, nice meeting you!I am Linda working on the 8th floor, how you doing?I am new here, any interesting places around here?I am looking for a coffee shop, any recommendation?
其實沒什麼必要和陌生人說話,若必須的話,一定要大方得體,畢竟羞澀和不自然會讓對方覺得你別有用心。
今天的內容,你說出口了嗎? 感興趣的話題,請留言給我,下一期,就講你的話題,
有緣遇到你,每天講口語,這裡是小賢英語,歡迎Follow。
評論列表
兩個人的感情往往都是當局者迷,找人開導一下就豁然開朗了
發了正能量的信息了 還是不回怎麼辦呢?
老師,可以諮詢下嗎?